Is a peer network really important?
Jane Howard, American journalist, author, and educator was quoted as saying “Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need it.” So, what is a peer network and why do we need one?
A network is a group of interconnected people as defined by Dictionary.com. Some networks are formal such as alumni associations, trade organizations, pickleball leagues, and parent-teacher associations. To belong to these networks, you join and become a member. They generally exist with a specific mission or purpose that members are in support of. On the other hand, some networks are informal. Some examples include running groups, mommy-and-me play groups, and book clubs. These are often formed via already existing relationships in which a common interest brings people together for a specific purpose.
I went for many years not doing any networking. I had multiple reasons why. I was a busy working mother who did not want to take time away from my career or family. My early workplaces did not offer peer network opportunities. But a real underlying reason what that I hated “networking”. I was not comfortable “working a room” as I found it exhausting so I would avoid networking events. Since I had not tried to do any networking, I did not have a group of people that I identified with, that were dealing with the same issues I was whether that was in my professional or personal life.
A peer network provides you with a group of people that you can relate to because they are in a similar work or personal situation as you. The individuals in your group can provide advice, act as a sounding board, and perhaps be a cheerleader as you work your way through life’s challenges.
Let’s get to some examples. When I retired and launched my business Seven Stones, I recognized that I needed a network to grow my business but also on a personal level was used to going to the office every day and did not want to feel isolated working from home. I joined the Chesapeake Professional Women’s Network which focuses on building relationships, providing educational programming, and giving back to the community (source: CPWN LinkedIn). I have found other women who own their businesses and are interested in learning about me and Seven Stones.
My parents recently moved to a retirement community. I quip that it is like they are on a cruise. Surrounded by people their age in a community with multiple opportunities for educational and social activities, they have thrown themselves right into the mix. Meeting new people and having new experiences seems to have given them more energy to live life more fully.
Whatever might be keeping you from joining, work to overcome that obstacle. No matter who you are or your stage in life, joining a group can give you support, a feeling of belonging, and maybe some fun new things to do.